Most often considered grave flowers are chrysanthemums which are also abundantly arranged in funeral bouquets as well as on graves. Their long life symbolizes enduring remembrance and respect for those who have already left. No wonder they are just before All Souls' Day the best selling flowers throughout the Republic and in much of Europe.
In addition to chrysanthemums, these are also a tasteful classic in mourning ceremonies: lilies and carnations — especially in white. They represent the restoration of the soul of the deceased and the hope of eternal life. In addition, even the cut ones will last a long time fresh, thus forming a reminder of the deceased. You won't do any harm with a mourning bouquet in your hand made of roses, which in the context of the funeral will express love, respect and sorrow of the lost one.
Other flowers to express sincere condolences:
Tradition has it that an even number of flowers are worn on events associated with death. Why is that the case anyway? An even number is considered complete, which symbolizes a constant life with a loved one even after his departure. This custom also permeates the floral arrangements and funeral flowers that adorn the funeral hall. These are usually mourning bouquets to be placed on a casket or urn.
Funeral wreaths are one of Tte most traditional arrangements that appear at funerals. The round shape of the wreath symbolizes eternity and the endless cycle of life and death. Even in this case, florists and arrangers honor the rule of an even number of flowers for a funeral. The wreath is always decorated with a mourning ribbon, on which is written a condolence message with a personal message or the names of the bereaved.
Another traditional arrangement at funerals is floral crosses, especially in Christian-based communities. They symbolize the presence of God, unwavering faith and hope in the afterlife. To make them, typical flowers such as chrysanthemums, lilies and roses are used, complemented by decorative foliage and tiny florets of other plants. Just as the wreaths fit into more muted colors or to heavenly white.
Another appropriate reminder is the mourning baskets filled with flowers, reminiscent of hope.
Decorating graves and memorial sites are less tied to traditions and to the rules, it is much more reflective of the preferences of the bereaved and everyone who walks to the tombstone. So do not be afraid to create a distinctive decoration that will make your time spent with the deceased more enjoyable. Cut flowers for the grave, perennials planted in chests for spring and other arrangements you can vary according to the season to keep the decor always fresh and interesting. Bring to the grave in autumn heathers that not only look good, but also last through the colder months. Plant in simple yet stylish containers in spring pansies with chamomile that will brighten up and give the place a nice smell.
An original idea can even be a decor using pots with dry flowers. lavender, immortelle or other dried plants stand out for their aesthetic appearance and at the same time have a long life. The combination of these elements can make the grave special, while making it feel delicate.
Grieving and dealing with the loss of a loved one is a long-term process that looks different for everyone and takes different lengths of time. Try to transform your sadness into something beautiful what you can at least symbolically dedicate to the bereaved. Immerse yourself in decorating the grave and think of it as your moment of therapy and time spent with the dead. Consider a mourning bouquet to lay on the grave, create an arrangement for the Christmas holidays from old ornaments and decorations, go for a walk and pick fresh flowers for the grave, which will be a festive memory. In short, immerse yourself in it, engage your hands, awaken your creativity and make the difficult time of grieving less stressful.
